You know, you just keep telling on yourself with every response. You can't even bring yourself to be honest - so dress up expecting other people to pay for you with BS like 'courtesy' or 'manners' or the latest one, 'standards'.

Your standards are anti-equality, anti-feminist and riven in patriarchy.

Imagine if the roles were reversed. Imagine if men expected women to pay for them on dates - and described that as 'courtesy' or 'standards'. You should ask yourself why that wouldn't be acceptable.